September 2010
1 post
Anonymous asked: Hey, seems life throws you a couple of curve balls. First, you cant find something good and real..then when you found something worth holding on to its defective somehow. Seems this is the real world..and nothing is smooth sailing..but, I guess a little advice could help. So, here it is: Its been two wonderful months, I met a guy who treats me so well for the majority of the time and things have...
August 2010
11 posts
HE WANTS YOU TO BE NAUGHTY
I met a woman who told me that she had been with her guy for over a year and everything was great, except for the physical aspect of their relationship. She enjoyed their passionate moments, but was a bit concerned being real with him. After some probing I found out that based on her description she was quite tame in bed, but only because she didn’t want to be judged by him. She was afraid that...
Facebook Friend Question:
Eliane asked:
Why do man find their dream woman but let their fears and hurts from past relationships keep them away from experience true love?
Good question, no, actually great question. Traditionally men or at least some men are known to not be so forthcoming with their emotions. Some men have trouble expressing how they feel because they’re not comfortable doing so. Expressing your love to...
chazellevonlind asked: Hey Rudez. Just wondering.. When a man is the first to say I Love you, speak about marriage and your future esp after only dating a month..does that mean that he knows youre the ONE? And if His reputation upholds many premiscious experiences..what makes you so sure that He even knows what the ONE is??
“Strive to be first: first to nod, first to smile, first to compliment, and first...”
Are All Females The Same?
One of our Facebook Friends asked, Are All Females The Same?
On behalf of my species let me just say that it would make our lives a lot easier if all women were the same. That way we would only need one of us to crack the code to understanding women and then we’d spread the word on as many social networking sites such as,
Advogato,
Amie...
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If you are looking for love, the best chance you have of finding absolute...”
After The Date
After a bad date guys usually want to make up for the time wasted. It may sound cold, but most guys look at a bad date as a complete waste of time. I know that there are two sides to every story, but for us or at least some of us we only see our side, and there is no other way for us to call a bad date, but as a waste of time. This is why we move on to the next warm body as soon as...
July 2010
14 posts
thisurlisalreadytaken15 asked: I hear the phrase "men are simple" often, and I've never really understood exactly why this is. More science perhaps? Just curious.
BELIEVE IN LOVE?
The things that come most quickly into your life are the things that you BELIEVE in the most. You can bring to you only what you BELIEVE, so you must BELIEVE to receive what you want. So my question to mostly the single ladies is, Do You Believe Love Is Meant For You?
Lyrics of love...
These are just two of the best expressions of love through lyrics that I’ve heard. Two different genres of music…Rock and Rhythm & Blues, but both have the same theme, love. To hear the songs you can look them up on YouTube, but here is just a snippet for you to sample.
I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
Far away and dreaming
I could...
“IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT THAT HE LIES TO YOU, BUT IT IS YOUR FAULT IF YOU CONTINUE TO...”
– The Rude Awakening
THE RUDE AWAKENING IS SHOUTING OUT…
Alda Lo for reading and showing the Rude Awakening blog her support. Thanks Alda!
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THE RUDE AWAKENING IS SHOUTING OUT…
Chazelle Von Lind for reading and showing the Rude Awakening blog her support. Thanks Chazelle!
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June 2010
12 posts
“REMEMBER NOT TO GIVE TO GET, BUT GIVE TO GIVE.”
– The Rude Awakening
LIES MEN TELL WOMEN...and what they really mean
1. Where would I find the time to see someone else?
Real Meaning: Seriously, please tell me where so I can find someone else.
2. No, it doesn’t make your butt look big.
Real Meaning: Besides, what do I care? I just want to have sex again…so I’ll say whatever I need to say.
3. I wouldn’t even look at another woman.
Real Meaning: At least not with you around.
4. I don’t know, I...
WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?
I was wondering about something, and I wanted to know how other guys felt, so I conducted a survey. I wanted to know how other guys felt about crack-view. I hope this is not you. To me crack-view doesn’t look together. It looks like you’re broken. It looks messy, cheap, poor quality, shoddy, untidy, just plain wrong. Anyway, the results from my crack-view survey are now in. Surprisingly, it turned...
YOU WANNA HOLD MY WHAT?
On the surface holding hands is cute and it unifies two people, but most men don’t see it that way, or at least we don’t think of it like that. I hear a lot of women say that the guy in their life doesn’t like to hold hands, or he won’t initiate it.
Well sometimes guys see holding hands as sending out a signal to all other women that he is off the market, and although he knows he’s taken by...
RUDE AWAKENING IS…
SHOUTING OUT… Roberta Leone Gould Dunn for reading and showing the Rude Awakening blog her support. Thanks Roberta!
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RUDE AWAKENING IS…
SHOUTING OUT… Yami Rodriguez for reading and showing the Rude Awakening blog her support. Thanks Yami!
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RUDE AWAKENING IS…
SHOUTING OUT… Glenda Knisely for reading and showing the Rude Awakening blog her support. Thanks Glenda!
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From dictionary.reference.com
wom•an [woo m-uh n] Show IPA noun, plural wom•en [wim-in] Show IPA, verb, adjective –noun 1. the female human being ( distinguished from man). 2. an adult female person. 3. a female attendant to a lady of rank. 4. a wife. 5. the nature, characteristics, or feelings often attributed towomen; womanliness. 6. a sweetheart or paramour; mistress. 7. a female employee or representative: A woman...
From www.merriam-webster.com
Main Entry:wom•an Pronunciation:\ˈwu̇-mən, especially Southern ˈwō- or ˈwə-\ Function: noun Inflected Form(s): plural wom•an \ˈwi-mən\ Etymology: Middle English, from Old English wīfman, from wīf woman, wife + man human being, man Date: before 12th century 1 a : an adult female person b : a woman belonging to a particular category (as by birth, residence, membership, or occupation)...
MEN WISH WOMEN KNEW...
Stop believing everything it says in your horoscope about my birth sign.
The Rude Awakening
ANONYMOUS ASKED:
My question: why do man desire to find the woman of their dreams and, when it happens, they just don’t do what they are suppose to?
Very good question! I’ve been asked this before, but it was prior to me starting this blog, so I’m glad I get to address this again.
Let me just say that men do want the woman of their dreams and when they find her they usually do whatever they can to keep...
ANONYMOUS ASKED:
What makes men think they know what women want? Do u think we as humans can please one another?
Ever since I can remember men have been accused of thinking that they know what women want. The truth is we don’t and if you ask any man they’ll probably admit that they have no clue about what women want. I think if you conducted a survey you would find more men who believe that some women don’t...
May 2010
12 posts
WEDNESDAY WONDERS
Just wondering… If all other factors being equal, could you be with a guy who had one major undesirable characteristic, such as being shorter or poorer than you, and please tell me why or why not?
Anonymous asked: Rudes, I was with this guy for 2 years. Then he breaks up with me, you know how that goes. Well we've always still talked and still had a thing. It's been almost a year now since we have been broken up. We talk about getting back together but he tells me he's not ready for a relationship yet because he needs to still figure out his life, traveling, school, career, ect.. but that the...
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
I would like to take this opportunity to wish all mother’s that read my blog, that follow me on Twitter and Facebook a very Happy Mother’s Day. This is one of the most special days in the year. I absolutely love and adore women, but I have a very special warm spot in my heart for moms.
Honestly, I believe everyday is mother’s day, but on this day make sure you do what you love, and spend time...
“IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT IF HE NEVER SPENDS MONEY ON YOU, BUT IT IS YOUR FAULT IF YOU...”
– The Rude Awakening
PERFECT MAN?
Just trying to even things out. Are we good now?!?!
IS THIS MAN'S PERFECT WOMAN?
Don’t blame me, one of my male Rude Awakening readers sent me this picture and begged me to submit this picture, but I’m wondering…do you think she cooks too!
Anonymous asked: I was just curious to see how you viewed age gaps in relationships. Let's say about a 10 yr gap between both of either an older woman and younger man or vice versa, older man and youNger woman. I totally understand already that age isn't anything but a number and relationships are based on attitude, how you carry yourself, & definite chemistry.. But like I said, I'm very...
Anonymous asked: As a young girl my dad always use to warn me against most guy's intentions. I use to always believe this was an over exaduration.. Now, the I older I get the more I loose faith in my old Disney fairytale happy endings. I seem to keep meeting Mr. Wrong. The ones that aim to score.... and it always concludes the same way. When I guard my morals guys consider me boaring and dissipear, if they...
Anonymous asked: My bf and I broke up 6 months ago. we broke up because he didnt want to fall any deeper for me because he was gonna travel the world and also wanted to focus on his starting his career and didnt want to worry about me. its been 5 months since we've broken up. we still hang out, we still talk. he tells me he needs to be alone and wants to stop talking to me and i give him his space but then...
ISN'T THIS JUST WRONG?
Women have been enhancing there assets for years, so why can’t a guy do the same thing…on second thought, maybe not. But just in case your guy needs some help in the back and front it’s called the Package Booster…so I’ve heard.