chazellevonlind asked: Hey Rudez. Just wondering.. When a man is the first to say I Love you, speak about marriage and your future esp after only dating a month..does that mean that he knows youre the ONE? And if His reputation upholds many premiscious experiences..what makes you so sure that He even knows what the ONE is??

Hey there Chazellevonlind, please accept my apology for not responding to you sooner, but your message along with a few others somehow ended up in a folder that I don’t pay much attention to. I was just cleaning up some files and discovered them. So once again, I’m sorry about that. Now for my delayed opininon…

This may come as a shock to you and others, but sometimes men fall first and they can also fall quickly. Speaking of love, marriage, and a future after only dating a month is quite fast, so the important piece of advice is to tread carefully. As quickly as one can fall in love, they can also fall out of love just as swiftly.

So you say that this guy has a reputation of getting his naughty on? Well, perhaps what you call promiscuity he might see it as just sharing his love around. Sometimes men and women confuse lust for love. Take it as a compliment that you lit his fire so soon, but keep your eyes open because if he’s one of those people who wear their emotions on their sleeves then lust disguised as love often fades suddenly. And sometimes it’s very easy to say what you feel when you’re caught up in the emotion of it all.

I like to look at love as a journey. If compared to a race, it’s a long distance race, like a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time, and be prepared because you might have to pump his brakes for him…but be gentle about it.